sunrise, it's nice to hear that it can help and doesn't have to change things with t. she's been asking for a few months for him to come in. i've been seeing her for 21 months. i had the final decision as far as him coming in. and it's not that i haven't told her enough, but that she hasn't seen me interact with anyone but her. i guess it makes sense. maybe it isn't that big a deal. i can always say he can never come back. maybe i'll get some sleep tonight afterall.