(((((bdp mess))))) I hope today goes ok for you!
My T wanted to meet my S/O - so I brought her in one session. It was very hard for me to make that step. But it ended up working out fine because my S/O got to "look T in the eye" and saw that T was not going to try to split us up or abuse me. That made my S/O stop asking "dumb" questions about what was going on in therapy and who that guy was

Then when I had my breakdown in Feb, my S/O went with me to session to drive as I was in bad shape. T had her join us for a few min just so she could ask T what was going on with me since it was freaking her out. T told her I would be OK and that I was safe. Then after she calmed down, he had her leave the room so he could talk with me alone. I liked that because he was making it clear that he was MY T and not there to deal with her issues