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LittleForgetMeNot · Nov 15, 2010, 08:06 AM

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Originally Posted by jiakhan

thanks a lot Belle (hugs)..... i know that u understand the pain im going through.it means a lot! others also know that its hard to get over somthing like this..the point is that i asked for advice and didnt act upon it when i was given advice by so many wonderful ppl believe me,i tried to! not hard enough enough may be..but i tried.

as for this guy...i have decided that when i will get to see him after a month or so i wont try to hide may face or something. i've made my apology to him and that should be enough!any reasonable and decent guy wouldnt judge me by my mistakes...because at the end i apologized! i have blocked him on facebook.... now he cant prove 100% to his friends that i messaged him on fb. only my name will be showing in the thread. and i wont approach him from my fake ids aswell. i deserve better than that. i hope i stay strong.

Good job!!! I know what it feels like to have those little relapses and wanna return, I've felt that quite a lot recently! You're right though, you do deserve better. I suggest setting some short term goals? If you fall back into a relapse it would be good to have things you're working for. Right now I'm just trying to get through 48 hours without checking up (only 15 more hours to go until I can reblock them). Maybe something like that would help keep you in check??