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Originally Posted by jazzy123456
You know, your not messed up...you are a normal human being who struggles with relationships...i actually think I own up to the fact that I have a victim mentality myself...My T's never told me but, I believe I do. its hard to think that way or hear that from anyone. I hope your situation works out soon and you can make those unhealthy relationships healthier.  |
Jazzy,
About being a victim. . .I'm not entirely sure where this comes from. I didn't have the best upbringing, but it wasn't terrible. I had emotional neglect but no physical abuse or SA at home. And the SA that happened with my neighbor would probably be classified as minor. So i wonder sometimes why do i have such a self-destructive part of me that is so quick to take blame for things and be treated badly? It's as though a part of me
wants to suffer. I don't quite get where i learned this.