saw my t with my husband today. it was really strange. she mostly talked to my husband and asked him lots of questions. she gave us an assignment to do together and wants us to come in together every other week! yikes! she did say we could just add another appt for that if we needed to. i can see the benefit to having both of us there, but i don't want to give up my time by myself. i will say it was kind of fun watching my husband squirm a little like i do every week - he was kind of nervous. now he knows what it's llke.