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Originally Posted by treehouse
I am incredibly direct with my T. Which is why we finally were able to get to my stuff at the end. I was confused and lost for most of the session but once I finally figured out what was happening, we talked about it, and T shifted.
I know T isn't perfect, and that is fine with me. He is such a good T, and ALWAYS listens to my side of any conflict we have. I love him for that.
So. I'm not upset AT him, as much as I'm just upset. Because this just feels like too much to sit with still.
I knitted him some socks....those were the socks I gave him  |
Good to know. Socks and all
I think you should know it's okay to also be mad AT your T sometimes too. I think those are completely normal feelings. I get upset AT my T when I'm in a similar situation, but it doesn't mean anything beyond that; I'm just angry about a thing in a moment and then it blows over. 2 minute, intense feelings--- the joys of ADHD lol. Sometimes I want to throw my T's books or something (the man has tons of them), but I think better of it. He's a pretty cool guy overall.
I think you should call your T and discuss it. My T would likely encourage me to call him if I left a session in the way that you did. They get paid well, don't worry-- a good part of the job for a T is out of session anyway.
You think calling him would help?