Deli- i am genuinely curious: what do you see thats so "not ok" about it? The fact that she found her address in the first place? Or that she actually did it? like i said, i think it becomes an issue if it becomes a habit, or leads to obsessive thoughts about it. In my case, i knew my T's address because her child attends a program where i work and i take care of the registration forms, which she knows about- so she knows i have her info. Her house is also on a road that i take home when i am in that area, but i dont necessArily have to take that route. I actually dont even know the house because they are back from the road. I just dont see it as stalkerish behavior.