Wow, I'm so sorry! I am a mother, and I have been awful to my kids also, just plain mean! One of my daughters told me about myself. I went into a very deep depression, but it made me seek treatment AGAIN. My husband also made some comments, which helped push me along the way. Things are better now, not great, but better. Whatever you decide to do, keep an eye on her! I wish you the very best,

Kelli