Rhiannon, it sounds frightening, and yet, in a way, it sounds like they know you can handl this, even if you don' think you can. It's good to know that they have given you some sign of life. I can generally hear a quiet mumble, but I rarely understand what he is saying, or a chuckle. Often now, it is also very quiet, but it is often a comfortable quiet. if it is uncomfortable, it is me who is uncomfortable, not the facets. generally speaking. I hope that things get cleared up soon so you feel better. I think you have been spectacular, doing all you have done. HUGGGGGSSSS!!!!