Yes, I know what you mean. It's already tough enough dealing with the mental issues. But then on top of it, I seem to be a magnate for what seem to be just all around no-good guys. It's really kind of hard to navigate between people that have the best intentions and then because of my past abuse, I have sooo many trust issues. It's really confusing. What are some other things to look for? Not just online but in real life as well.