Greetings.
I am having a problem where I am feeling "trapped" in my relationship. If I were having this feeling because of obvious problems or issues between me and my girlfriend, I would know it was time to break up or move on... but what makes it difficult is that I make her very happy and our relationship has always seemed positive.
I love being good to her, and I am, but before we were together I was able to affect the lives of so many people, and now I spend all my time on/with the same person. I feel like I stopped meeting new friends, that I am less active (in general, and in the lives of others), and that I am missing out on the things i once enjoyed.
Is is not worth sabotaging a nice relationship, with a nice girl who loves me? Is it just my masochistic tendency to watch to screw up anything thats good in my life? am I just driving myself crazy?
I feel confused about what to do.