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Originally Posted by Symbiosis
Rainbow, thanks for being brave enough to bring up this topic because I certainly relate.
I got a party invitation to my T's house and that's how I found out the Big Boss at my workplace was T's wife.
I had tremendous feelings about that invitation. I didn't want to know where he lived. I didn't want to know he had a pool because that implied big ol' fancy house...yuk. I didn't want to know that he lived in my small town within a small area meaning we probably used the same gas station, grocery store, etc. I didn't want to know about any of it. Obviously, I didn't go the party.
Then I became curious and I wanted to know and had thoughts about doing a drive-by and seeing if it was as flashy as I imagined, etc. But I couldn't do that until he was out of town so I haven't...yet. I'm still torn. I kind of don't want to confirm his extravagance (if that's true). Obviously, both he and his wife are very successful so I can surmise the wealth part. But right now, I can pretend he is someone who lives modestly despite his wealth and for some reason, that's more comfortable to me.
Anyway, I'm glad I'm not the only one!
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WOW Wow WOW~!!
Now that would totally freak me out to discover that my BOSS was MY T's WIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Okay creepy. I am officially creeped out!
It was strange enough to me to discover throughout time that we knew some of the same people (not friends, just acquaintances--we share the same religion so we travel in similar circles).
I KNOW what you mean about the wealth thing. I understand that therapists can make some decent buck. However, I always struggle internally (and sometimes openly with my T) with whether or not he ***GETS ME*** or not due to his higher socio-economic status and upbringing. So, now you know you aren't the only one, in case you wondered...