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Old Nov 16, 2010, 11:18 PM
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Originally Posted by Symbiosis View Post
Rainbow, thanks for being brave enough to bring up this topic because I certainly relate.

I got a party invitation to my T's house and that's how I found out the Big Boss at my workplace was T's wife.

I had tremendous feelings about that invitation. I didn't want to know where he lived. I didn't want to know he had a pool because that implied big ol' fancy house...yuk. I didn't want to know that he lived in my small town within a small area meaning we probably used the same gas station, grocery store, etc. I didn't want to know about any of it. Obviously, I didn't go the party.

Then I became curious and I wanted to know and had thoughts about doing a drive-by and seeing if it was as flashy as I imagined, etc. But I couldn't do that until he was out of town so I haven't...yet. I'm still torn. I kind of don't want to confirm his extravagance (if that's true). Obviously, both he and his wife are very successful so I can surmise the wealth part. But right now, I can pretend he is someone who lives modestly despite his wealth and for some reason, that's more comfortable to me.

Anyway, I'm glad I'm not the only one!
WOW Wow WOW~!!
Now that would totally freak me out to discover that my BOSS was MY T's WIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Okay creepy. I am officially creeped out!

It was strange enough to me to discover throughout time that we knew some of the same people (not friends, just acquaintances--we share the same religion so we travel in similar circles).

I KNOW what you mean about the wealth thing. I understand that therapists can make some decent buck. However, I always struggle internally (and sometimes openly with my T) with whether or not he ***GETS ME*** or not due to his higher socio-economic status and upbringing. So, now you know you aren't the only one, in case you wondered...
Thanks for this!
Symbiosis