deli, your viewpoint is valid though I disagree. I don't feel sad because I don't think it was wrong to drive past my T's house once. I've been triggered by her trip and it was something I couldn't stop myself from doing. I don't think she will be upset.

Peaches, yes she was scared because I looked up stuff about her parents online. I don't think she'll be scared now because she knows me a lot better. I feel different about it now, too. I feel more compassionate to my parts, including those who wanted to see her house. I know what the little parts want, and I'm working with them.