That's awful. You must be so angry. I am angry just thinking about it. I have OCD and that would be so bad. Don't know if my humour about myself is appropriate here.... but I would be cleaning the place the second I got there because I couldn't stand it otherwise.
Tell your daughter that she is admired. i think she is very brave. She will surely come through this alot better. Hope you are all feeling better soon and that things work out with insurance and other stuff.
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