Sorry, don't mean to hijack, just wanted to squeeze in a response to SenatorP-

Thank you! I was totally flipped out. He didn't get it for the longest time, too, and that pissed me off more. Even now, every day I see T's wife, which is most weekdays, I think "T's wife, T's wife, T's wife" and not what I should be thinking, "Big Boss, Big Boss, Big Boss."