Remember your t is a professional with hopefully very good boundaries -- quite capable of taking care of herself. She'll take time when she needs it. She'll see patients when she is able. It isn't your job to protect your t. My t lost his father about a year ago, his son has been in prison, he has lots of "stuff", but it has never been my job to protect him from me. He doesn't need protection from me or my stuff. He's a big boy. He knows how to take care of himself quite well.
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