This is not bipolar related but I thought I'd post here because this is where I generally post.

I snow ski. My ex bf and I had decided that when his daughter was 5 I could take her skiing with me. We told her. This was while we were together of course. Well we broke up last year but I continued to see her until about April or May (when I started seeing someone new and her dad flipped).

Here's the problem: Ski season's about to start and I made a promise to a little girl that I would take her skiing this year. I'm still more than willing to take her...for a "girls weekend" covering all expenses. I'm pretty sure her dad will say no but I feel like I should still call and offer to try to keep my promise. Is it a good idea? I don't know. I don't know that it's fair to her either but it would be cool if we could have a "girls weekend" once a year every year.

I was "Mommy" for as long as she could remember (her name choice not ours...her mother was really mad). I feel terrible about the way we left things. Since her dad flipped he cut off all communication so there was no final goodbye. She left screaming that she didn't want to go with him she wanted to stay and play in my garden. That was the last time I saw/talked to her.

What do you guys think? Any suggestions? I'm pretty sure her dad will say no but I don't really see any harm in trying... IDK Help!