Omers,
Gratitude is a perfectly acceptable and understandable emotion for you to express to yout massage therapist. WHY you expressing your gratitude, thankfulness, for her to always listen to your gripes is confusing to her, I don't know. Perhaps part of the story is missing here?
Did you mix any sexual emotions or desires into your gracious statements to her?
Did she mistakenly mix either of those in her response/s to you?
Or, were both of you trying to talk at the same time? Perhaps speaking "over" another as you each tried to make a point?
Those are the only ideas I have, Omers. Sorry

Something to think about...perhaps you missed some messages that she was trying to make

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