My T is coming to see the play I'm in. I told her to feel free to come backstage afterwords and say hi (family and friends are allowed backstage into the wings to greet the cast). I don't have a problem with it. But that's me. She was worried about someone figuring out she's my T and I said just because you are a therapist doesn't necessarily mean you're my therapist. You can just be my friend for the night :-) She's now really excited about getting to come backstage.