Hello paperheart,

Welcome to pc. Your bf could have any one of a number of things happening. His actual response sounds very much like depression, which can hit at any moment and ruin things in a matter of moments or hours.

There are different types of depression so only a doctor can name it and diagnose it. But honestly saying "I'm not letting him go that easily" is not going to be helpful at all if he's feeling overwhelmed by everything in his life. He may have been trying to do everything everyone else wants and expects of him; what he really wants for himself is more important if he is going to get well.

I understand your sadness and pain too, but if you are together and the only thing that is bothering you is his state or condition then I really hope you can put that first. He is in a crisis and he needs support and friendship. As you support him, you can depend on us to support you and help you through this.

Rhiannon