Hello beautiful,

Things have been like this for a long time now haven't they? I remember your posts when you first joined and your anger at the situation.

Like shez I don't want to appear negative at all but there comes a time when you must stop ignoring the obvious and accept it. I'm not going to tell you to leave him, no one can do that because it is either your decision or his, but just pining about it is going to hurt you more and more and I don't want to see that at all; it will begin to affect your daughter negatively too.

It hasn't been long since she was born has it? And you were upset because your body had changed and you felt that even though you were pretty he wasn't giving you any loving at all; that was about 3.5 to 4 months ago. Things seem to have become worse since then.

We must all work on ourselves instead of trying to change others, that is really the most important thing I can say to you hon. Something has happened to change your relationship and I think that is the question you need to ask..."what has changed and please tell me the truth".

Wishing you luck and success,

Rhiannon