I can't tell you how to be you. I can tell you how I found me. I had always loved musical theatre but had always been too scared to audition for anything. All through high school I wished I had time in my schedule for it but I didn't and was afraid of the "clickyness" of it. Through college I was too scared.

Finally I felt like I had hit rock bottom in my life and I figured I had nothing left to loose and auditioned - I got cast. Turns out I belong in the theatre. So my question to you would be do you have something you've always wanted to do but didn't? Try it! Or just try something new...maybe it will help you find you.