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That was the one you asked for.

This one:

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... is for the fact that being smart enough to know when you need something, and courageous enough to ask for it, has nothing at all to do with being selfish. It is self knowledge and self respect.

So without having ever met you I already know two very positive character traits about you.

Good luck.