I agree.

Just to put it in the open, I asked for my thread in depression to be deleted because I could not cope with the replies I kept getting from one person. I have saved a copy of the thread as there were so many helpful responses. When I am able to I will open it, remover the unhelpful ones and respond to the rest. Thank you all. I can't return to the saved file of the thread at the moment because, much as I would like to (and have tried to) ignore upsetting posts, even putting one person on ignore, I cannot do it. SOmething in me has to open that post.

I don't want to stop posting here. I am in a very very bad place and the support I am getting is really helpful. But I am scared, even now posting this, that one individual will respond and I can't deal with that. So I am putting myself open to abuse here (even though I know the huge majority of you are nothing but generous and supportive) and it is a frightening place to be. But I really want people to know that my request to have the thread pulled was because of only one person's posts. I also really appreciate all the supportive pms I have had - thank you all.
Caroline