Thread: avoidant :(
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Old Nov 18, 2010, 09:35 AM
lostlyricalsoul lostlyricalsoul is offline
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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear View Post
Can anyone tell me why people with "avoidant personality" or "avoidant traits" seem to be hurt and rejected so often when it's so hard to reach out? (IRL)
Probably in my case its because I just suck..... as i've been told so many times, mostly by myself
Most people read our shyness, sensitivity, and sometimes timidity as weakness, and in the dog eat dog world they attack....maybe even without knowing they are. Even though the effect is still the same.
Thanks for this!
boodles, shyviolet