midnight welcome to pc! i was thinking when i read your post that if we aren't secure in our own skin then we seek outside ppl to define our worth. your bf sounds inconsiderate but also i feel you are insecure. i'd not sit and wait for him and i'd plan to do other things when he doesn't show up. sitting around adds to your anxiety about your relationship with him. if he doesn't show or call make yourself somwhat unavailable and get on with your life. if it were me even if i'm irritated i wouldn't let him know. he doesn't care if you are upset. i'd consider him not being my bf. consider this behavior as the tip of the iceberg about his being so inconsiderate of others. clearly he thinks himself so important that he feels he doesn't owe any explanation for his behaviors. i'd drop him like a hot potato but that's just me. i do believe tho that you deserve more than he can offer you.