He said that he forgets a lot and thats why he doen'st call til later. I also have to learn to take what he says with a grain of salt, you never know what will happen with him in his busy life. Like yesterday he said he was going to go to his friends for a couple hours then....left it open ended like we were going to do something. But then end up calling me at 6 at night telling me he is going to stay where he was at. I think I expect to much, when he said he was going to his freinds for a couple hours, I guess I assumed that he would spend time with me after that, with out even confirming that. So it is a bit of him being inconsiderate, but also me being a bit selfish thinking the world revolves around me. I just started therapy a few weeks ago and we have just barely touched this subject. She is helping me understand that we are human. I also have to understand that my boyfreind is going through a lot also trying to get back on his feet financially and can't be there for me as much as he used to be. It is kind of uncharacteristic of him, only the past month or so while he is trying to get his life back in order. But it doesn't help matters when I freak out like that.

What is the book you are reading boodles?

Thanks for all your help, this is nice meeting other people with similar issues to talk to.