Hi pv03..it's tough to have a parent who it seems you can't get thru to. I honestly believe one of the best things my kids did for me before I had a diagnosis was to give me lots of space and not try to reason with me when my brain was being unreasonable.

My biological mother most definitely had a mental disorder, but back then there was little understanding of anything less than complete insanity. I spent years trying to help her, including taking her into my home and getting her into an inpatient program..she walked out of there saying she didn't know why she was there in the first place. I ended up cutting off all contact with her to save myself. That was almost twenty years ago. She is still making my brother's life a living hell and she's still denying there is anything wrong with her.

I'm sorry this isn't a story with a happy ending...I guess my point is that maybe taking an emotional break, giving your mom a little space, will help her mind get back to a more reasonable place. If you can make sure she isn't in any imminent danger to herself, it might give both of you a chance to find a common ground.

And please don't feel as if she doesn't love you...in my most horrible times, I never stopped loving my children.

I hope you both find the peace that you need...sending loving, peaceful vibes your way...