ZH, how strange that you would want to move a thread to another forum? Cos in the one breath you are saying you can post what feels OK to you and others should not look, but in the other you suggest that the threads that make you feel uncomfortable should be moved.

I dont get it.

I dont get what people feeling unsafe and hurting has to do with Kudos or self esteem?

I feels uncomfortable to hear talk of club house cos that seems exclusive and I dont want to exclude anyone. I feel that if people want to join in, DD or not, they are welcome. I want to hear from everyone, read what they feel, let them be a part of what they want to be a part of. A clubhouse seems to indicate rules, admission fees, and exclusions. Thats not what Im about and it doesnt feel like its what anyone is about.

And in my opinion, if a little starts a thread about a place they want to feel safe, and then others come (big or small) then i feel thats a real compliment. It makes me feel proud to be part of something that people want to come to.