Yeah, she does have a strong hide. But I've fallen for the "oh boo hoo I'm married but our marriage is dead and still have strong feelings for you" trick and let me just say that in retrospect, I can see it was a TRICK! A TRICK, I tell you! And by that I don't mean that the men in these situations are malicious -- I believe that in many cases, their feelings are genuine -- but it's a trick in the sense that it leads nowhere and the person who ends up being the bad guy is the one who doesn't have a strong enough hide.

Seeker absolutely did the right thing. I'm never falling for that again! Wayyyyy too much drama!