I just feel like we're going to get nowhere if she doesn't know everything else because while what I told her is the thing that put(s) me absolutely over the edge, it is not the main source of my problems.

I also know that it takes time to build up trust/a relationship and that T isn't easy. This isn't my first time in T, and I had the same issues when I first started with my T back home (who, by the way, I think I want to call and see if she can fit me in when I'm home over Christmas break)...