I know how your feeling. I feel the same way even when she stares at you and says leave me alone you just cant let go.. What we do is we put them in the center of our lives and without them its just to hard to go on. Weve been fighting for the last 2 hours. I feel stupid sometimes the way she makes me feel. I dont feel the courage inside to say enough because it gets harder without her. Im clinically depressed i feel like only time when i have fun or when i enjoy life is when im with her and apperantly this is too much for her. I just cant differentiate if its love or obsession thats keeping us together or does it really matter which one it is as long as were together. Its not about letting go its about how to keep it that way with less pain.