Hi I'm not sure where to begin with this but I'll try my best. The last relationship that I was in I was involved with a married woman who kept telling me that she was going to leave her husband. Well to say the least that ended very bad. But now on to my new problem this past Halloween I was working with a girl who I have known for almost 10 years now she just started working at the job and we really just now got to know each other. Well she told a few people that she liked me and word got back to me one thing lead to another then she kissed me. Ok sounds like a simple problem but this girl has a boyfriend. She says she loves him but at the same time has feelings for me, she told me she has never felt this way about someone since she has been with him. I told her to take her time and think about what will make her happy. But deep down its getting to me because I keep thinking shes not going to leave him. Everything seems fine when I'm around her but when I'm home I think about it all the time. I'm afraid I have changed the way I act around her in a way. But when we are together like I said its great. Could it just be that this girl has been in a relationship with this guy for 5 years and is scared to break up with him. I mean its only been like two weeks and we only get to see each other at work. Because we both go to school also. Could it be I'm scared to trust in her to leave because of that last failed attempt and I'm looking to much in to it? Because it has only been two weeks.

I'm sorry if that was very confusing I have a lot going on in my head right now. There are some differences in the two this one is staying honest about everything with me her feelings and she says she just doesn't want to hurt either.
So should I give her time or try to end it before I get hurt. Or am I just crazy and over thinking all of this. If so how can I get my mind off of it?

Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks to anyone who took time to read this.