After speaking with you tonight in chat, my opinion hasnt changed.

This girl has been in a relationship with the same person for 5 years. That is a long time. When someone is in a relationship for that long.....things tend to get a little "boring". When things get "boring", people will tend to look outside of the relationship for what they are lacking in the relationship.

I truely beleive that if this girl has true feelings for you and wants to persue a relationship with you, then she will leave the BF before that happens. She is really not thinking clearly right now.

I have been in the same situation has this girl and it is not easy for her right now. The choice she makes here will effect her entire life no matter what she does. Please stand back a bit and let her get some clarity on the issue.

No one is perfect, infidelity happens in relationships but, you dont have to help it along.

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((TWF)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))