(((((((sewerrats))))))))
You're right, the holidays are a really tough time. It's hard to pretend you're happy when you're not feeling it, and the holidays just add the pressure to do so. My biggest problem with the holidays are all the people around. I have a huge family and it's impossible to get two minutes to myself. In order to combat that, I like to try to find something to do over the holidays for MYSELF. Personally, I try to go for a long drive into the country with the radio blaring, or I'll stay up late after the rest of the house has gone to sleep, sit by the fire and just enjoy the quiet. Anything for a few moments of peace.
The holidays are as much about relaxing and taking care of ourselves as they are about celebrating. Take good care of yourself and you'll find it that much easier to get through. And if all else fails, remember it'll all be over in a matter of weeks.