Hey fellow Boderlines....do you ever take like five or more minutes trying to decide on something? Like for example going to a gas station and wanting something to drink but not wanting your regular brand but amybe wanting something different and so you look at everything and NOTHING sounds good not even really the regular brand and you still continue to stand there not being able to make up your mind until finilaly you get sick of it and go with your usual brand anyways?

Or not having a sense of idenity? I wished I could find one......to like something and know it and not be on both sides......to firmly say this is who I am....because I really don't know...........how do I find out..........