(((((((Zoo)))))) It sounds like she has some very deep problems. It is almost as if she is trying to avoid feeling guilty about being a voyeur in your situation. I hate to say it, but I don't think she was listening to you back then to help you out. I think she was "rubber necking" and she had to terminate the relationship because she knew she was guilty of doing this and felt it... but was in denial about it.

I am very sorry that you had this experience in this way. You did nothing wrong. But I think deep down you know that.