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Old Nov 20, 2010, 07:25 PM
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Alas, we seem to be at an acknowledged, shared (how do i say) cautious regard of each other. Eying each other warily, circling each other, keeping our distance, but with respect. This is totally new. I knew I was withdrawn, but in my power, if that makes sense... like testing the waters of the world's safety again while being more on guard. She spoke to me fairly normally in the morning, as i was the first one on time and only one there for probably 5-10 minutes. I didn't go out of my way to help like i usually do, kept to myself. Perhaps she understands more clearly after a few days just how much she undermined my sense of safety with that tirade of hers. Such a shock. But i came to the thing, i participated, if cautious, and I guess we'll see where we stand next week (as I see her for groups mon and tues and then individual wed... assuming the weather doesn't snow like it says it will).
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Kiya


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(((((((Kiya)))))) wow. I am so sorry that this is so painful for you!
It sounds like T made one mistake that is now a much larger mess! ICK!
And there you are all wrapped up in the middle of it!!! No fair for you at all !!!!!

Why don't you go Sat so you can look at T and maybe T will spend time afterwards with just you to get this mess fixed she made? You are the one who deserves that time for your own healing. Even if it takes her all Sat evening to try to work through it, that was not your fault she acted out that way. But you are suffering right now. I am sorry.
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Thanks for this!
WePow