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Originally Posted by MissingMyOldSelf
Thanks Landance. I know I'm not the only one who didn't participate, but I'm the only one who got the mean emails. Other people who didn't participate didn't get a thing.
And you know.... the more I think about it.... I've participated in every single carry in for the last 3 years.... I miss one... and I get my butt reamed for it??? REALLY??
And all my boss says -- "I'm not getting involved." REALLY? My work performance today has been awful because I've been crying because I can't believe how some people are treating me..... and this doesn't seem to bother him.
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You could go off on stress leave, that'd fix her lil red wagon
...but I think because she won't be happy until you've reacted, you should send an email around the office to everyone but her, your reason for not carrying in.
It really is no ones business and you are totally right there, but if it reduces your stress to tell ppl why you didn't join in then it is worth doing it.
You didn't actually boycott the dinner you just didn't join in. From what I know about carry ins it isn't a federal crime not to.