Hi Billi,

Sounds like a touchy situation. If you are not happy in dealing with Tina then you don't have to. You could have contested the will but from 2008 I think it is too late. Have you seen a copy of the will? that is something that is important. It needs to be a notorised copy from a lawyer. I'd want to see it if it were me.

Maybe you could write a letter explaining yourself? You can't actually call her a liar because you just don't know if your Aunt was telling you the exact truth. She is passed over and you can't ask her.

And to be honest I must ask what possible benefit does she get from lying? Just questions. Maybe that time was the only time your aunt could completely relax and wanted it for herself? That isn't unreasonable.