I'm so confused me and my ex had called it quits and one night he told me to move on. I had met a guy that night I even gave him my number which something I never do. I always wondered if I was married I probably still given him my number. Well he texted me all night I prefer texting so I texted him back. We ended up setting up a place to meet the next day. I met him at a bar and was pretty tossed so I remembered he wore glasses so I waited for him to recognize me. He did, so we talked about what we wanted at the time. We agreed that we did not want a relationship just friends with benefits. Ok so I went with it given he was 24 and kinda shocked that I was 28.
He confuses me because he always wants me to spend the night and cuddle weird for me because my ex hated cuddling. I liked the guy so I would then after a few weeks he told me he loved me and wanted me to be his girlfriend. He drinks alot, pretty much blacks out every night. So when I told him about it the next morning he said he says alot of things when he's drunk. That I shouldn't listen to him. We started to hang out more and every night he'd tell me that he loved me he even told his friends I was his girlfriend one night after I gave in and told him I loved him too. I met him in aug last week I went to reno with a girlfriend he left a huge hickey on my neck really. He wants us to be friends with benefits but I stay the night and hang out with him. He has me so confused I don't know what to do with him I like him but I have problems I need to deal with and I haven't heard from him in 2 days. I haven't slept with him in a week what do I do now any suggestions?