Hi ~ I have to agree with the other poster. You can't leave one relationship and jump into another, and still have feelings for the first one. You don't even know who YOU are anymore. You need time by yourself - without ANYONE hanging around. You need time to pamper yourself, to spend time just getting to know YOU, and what your likes and dislikes are, what your beliefs are, etc. In the past, you've just been somebody's wife. You haven't been your own person. It's time you found out what YOU are all about.

Take that time now before you get into any more relationships - and stay away from Chris. It didn't work once, and it's not gonna work a second time.

I wish you the very best of luck. Take care of YOU and God bless. Hugs, Lee