I know from experience that a woman's sadness can be very difficult for men. There are millions and millions of women who have experienced what you're going through and probably every one of them would understand and empathize with your feelings. Your feelings are normal some men just have trouble coping with them. Your husband proabably thinks not talking about it will help to make you better. Sounds like that's what he really wants - for you to feel better. You will. Most women can't forget or totally 'get over' the loss of a child but most do go on to have other children and are good mothers and wives. Your husband needs to know that. It sounds like he's scared. Try to go easy on yourself and your husband. Ask him to do the same for you.