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Old Nov 21, 2010, 11:48 AM
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Originally Posted by Eliza Jane View Post
I'm surprised that there are females who have male T's that hug them. That would freak me out (hmm...gives me some insight into my own issues). Pdoc is male and shakes my hand at the end of every session. That feels about right to me for that relationship---warm, but not in my personal space.

EJ
Eliza Jane, back when I was in therapy I had a male therapist. There times I would ask him for a hug at the end of a session. It was healing for me. Most of the men in life up to that point had been abusive. It helped me to learn that not all men were abusers.
Thanks for this!
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