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Old Nov 21, 2010, 11:56 AM
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Thank you, very, very much. I am certain his rule has to do with absolute boundaries. Maybe I could talk to him about touching as an actual sign of respect and gratitude, that such formality actually seems disrespectful to me. Does this make sense to anyone?
bpd2, I would definitely talk to him about how you feel. Therapists certainly have the right to set boundaries on touch with clients, but they also need to be mindful of what they communicate to the client. Talking to him about how you feel could open the door to some really good therapy.
Thanks for this!
bpd2