This sounds so very positive about your marriage! I am glad you have confidence your H is all these things. You said you've started to talk about your H is therapy. Do you think he will join you at some point? My T has said he can give tips to men on how to treat their wives that will tremendously improve their marriages (this is a generalization, I know). He said some men are so happy to learn a few simple things to improve and are very grateful to him. He said other men get very defensive and think T is criticizing them and can't hear what he is saying because of this. I think for men like my XH, it would have a better chance of helping him if he heard these things from a T, rather than from his wife. In how you write about your H, it does not sound like he is like this, though. Best wishes for an improving and happy marriage!