Hi PT You are doing very well especially since you have been recently diagnosed.

I noticed the same thing when I was first diagnosed. When someone asked how I was doing it seemed like he or she would be suspicious if I gave a positive answer. It was annoying, but I also understand why. I had put a facade on for so many years that when I ended up being hospitalized it was a shock to everyone. Now 3 years after my diagnosis the suspicion has stopped and friends are just happy to hear when I'm feeling well.

I agree with sundog that actions speak louder than words, but it's also an adjustment phase for you, your husband, family and friends. It will get better. If you want to ease back into the work world you may want to consider volunteering.