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"nobody here is capable of making anyone else feel anything"

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This is true, but we ARE capable of apologizing when we know we have hurt other's feelings. I agree with most of what _zh has said, but just a reminder that apologizing or at least "checking in" with the hurt person is a humane and considerate option.

It hopefully goes without saying that by "apologizing", I mean for inadvertently hurting feelings, not for what was originally said.