Helo zoocity,

I'm with Madi here; she writes with definite heartfelt words and she knows what she is talking about.

The same thing happened to me even though the marriage had been over for a number of years and I was only staying to nurse my ex through his alcoholism and his liver disease. When he became physical with me I left.

None of my children have forgiven me and I no longer see any of my grandchildren.
It tore my heart out but there is nothing I can do about it. They must make their own decisions.