Thanks for commenting I can really relate to thinking of my partner always look after his needs and feelings telling myself I will be fine then fly off the handle or get resentful about my needs not met or something like that. I often wonder is it better to have husband who has bp like myself or that he doesnt. I always attract very intelligent type and think they love me for my looks mainly. I hate feeling so stupid and then beating myself up over it.

Thanks,

Rainwater